I just bought my first shotgun a few days ago, tried it out today for the first time. Benelli Nova 20g with the youth stock (for my short womanly arms lol). Well let me tell you, my shoulder KILLS and I have a little bruise. Boyfriend said I was holding the gun right, but I don't think so, so I may need tips on that. Also, having a hard time finding good recoil pads for this gun. I know I probably sound like a sissy asking about recoil pads for a 20g yeah yeah but whatever. I see a lot about the Comfortech Gel Pads for the Nova, but is it specifically for the 12g? And does it matter if it has the youth stock on it? So lost, someone help!