No one sells the model I wanted in my home town so I bought the gun from Scheels in Wichita Kansas. That is why I didn't know about the stiff safety before I bought it. I called Benelli and explained the stiff safety to them. They were very polite but it was if they had never heard of the problem before. They sent me a shipping label and expedited the repair since it was a new gun. They fixed it. I can get the safety off now with no problem with or without gloves. I will say that the texture of the glove might be an issue. I would recommend using a glove with some texture to it. The design of this safety is not ideal. It is recessed and pretty much flush with the top of the receiver. So there is nothing really to get purchase on with your thumb and push it forward. The only way it works is that it has a large surface area, so you just place your whole thumb on top of it and slide it forward. Benelli could improve it greatly by just raising up the barrel selector switch which would give something to push against - and an added benefit would be an easier functioning barrel selector switch.
I also emailed Benelli and they eventually got back to me from Italy. They said no one had complained about this stiff safety issue before and no one had complained about the recessed flush design either, and they would pass it on to their design engineers. I think it also seems that their inspection process at the factory is lacking, that they would pass a gun with a safety that is too stiff to function.
I don't really believe that they have had no complaints before. This recessed design also looks CAD designed by engineers rather than hunters, to focus on aesthetics rather than function.
It also surprises me somewhat that Benelli doesn't monitor this forum. There are so many unanwsered complaints about a lot of their product line. Many complaints are never answered and the ones that are answered are by customers, not the company. Many forums from other manufacturers have complaints that are monitored by the manufacturers with help to fix or repair problems.
Anyway, the bottom line is that the safety is fixed and should work just fine. When I shoot clays, I always start with the safety off and the shotgun in a low ready position to simulate hunting. I wanted to make sure the safety is functional to hunt with in cold weather with gloves and I had it out for a shooting lesson in cold weather with gloves on and it was fine. (Forget about getting the barrel selector switch off but in defense of Benelli, I can't get those switches off on my other over and unders either in a hurry under hunting conditions, includning my Browning Superposed Superlight.)
Good luck and good hunting to you all.